Showing posts with label Husband. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Husband. Show all posts

Monday, September 30, 2013

Baking And Bananas

I have neglected the blog a bit, but I have been busy with pulmonary rehab and other things. I had some spare time this week, so I decided to put my not-so-great baking skills to use.

I had an urge last Monday to bake. I cook all of the time and I feel comfortable in that role. I cook dinners most nights and I enjoy trying new recipes and seeing where I can take my culinary skills. Baking, on the other hand is not my forte, nor have I ever been that interested. It might have something to do with the fact I don't like sweets as much as I love salty snacks!

Monday is when that changed. I had an urge to bake chocolate chip cookies. I decided to start with something easy and go with the Nestlé Toll House recipe, straight off the back of the chocolate chips bag. I was really nervous because I know baking requires exact measurements, and in cooking I usually take liberties with my measurements. Well, the cookies turned out great and I'm pretty sure Tom has been having them with breakfast, lunch and dinner. I forgot to mention, my husband is a desert-a-holic. It is another reason I don't keep sweet things in the house. He devours ice cream, cakes, and pies like it is his job.

Friday, September 20, 2013

Love And Marriage ... And CF

Two months before my wedding, I was in a car returning from a CF event with my pediatric doctor. As our car pulled up in front of her house, she looked at me and said, "I'm not going to wish you luck for your wedding day, I'm going to wish you luck for your marriage." I must have looked perplexed because she went on to say, "The wedding is just one day, your marriage is for the rest of your life. You deserve luck for your entire life, not just one day." Her nuggets of wisdom and advice were what I cherished most about her.

She was right, the wedding was just one day, and a happy, most exciting day at that. We need luck and good thoughts for the rest of our lives.

Friday, September 13, 2013

Update On A Busy Week

This is the first chance I have had all week to sit down and write on my blog. This week has been busier than I imagined, but it was all good busy.

Let's skip Monday. To be honest, I don't even remember Monday. Tuesday is when it all started. I have been waiting for Tuesday, September 10th for over a month. On Tuesday, I started pulmonary rehab. This is an eight week program dedicated to helping people with lung disease. It is a program to help people start exercising and learn how to manage their disease. I'm in this program for the exercise. I asked my doctors months ago to get me into a rehab program where I was forced to exercise weekly. Any medical professional in my life knows how much I hate to exercise and how lazy I can be, so for me to actually ask to be put into this program was a huge step forward. This program will be good for me, and keep me strong while waiting for new lungs.

Friday, September 6, 2013

The Supporting Role: A Husband's Perspective

As Maggie's husband, primary carer and chief "blogmaster" of Maggie's Miracle, I am delighted to have been invited to make my first blog post. My wife insists that people want to hear my story and so she set me this assignment. Her brief was simply that I should talk from the heart, which is not easy for us Brits. But I will do my best to give you an honest and personal account of our journey together so far.

I have always loved TV hospital dramas. Growing up in the UK, I was an avid fan of the BBC shows Casualty and Holby City. For American readers, I suppose an equivalent show would be ER, which I actually have no interest in watching. Maybe it's because British TV is infinitely superior to the endless drivel of commercials that passes for American TV, or maybe it's because I now find myself playing a supporting role in my very own hospital drama!


The Cast Of BBC's Casualty

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Smacked By Life

Life tends to smack us in the face when we are not paying enough attention. Most of us, myself included, go through our daily routine without even thinking about it. We get so wrapped up in the little things and life is one big rush, we sometimes forget to stop and process.

Life smacked me in the face today. The past few days have been a blur for me. Worrying about getting to the grocery stores, worrying about what to make for dinner, and worrying about my house getting more cluttered by the minute. I have been talking about transplant on this blog, on the phone, and in a speech I made at my Toastmasters class last night. Transplant, transplant, transplant. It's all I have talked about, yet I've barely had a chance to think about it.